It's all about the cushion

I missed my calling. How was I to know when I was 18 and planning my future by picking a college major that I would want to be a wedding planner? I'm not even sure they had wedding planners back then, it certainly was never presented to me as a career choice.

Can I just tell you how I am thriving with this whole thing? I am in my element; organizing, researching, making lists and timelines and budgets, with my binders and folders and books and websites. Perhaps it's having witnessed 127 friends, family and coworkers go through it already, or maybe this marriage is just meant to be, whatever the cause, I never thought planning a wedding would be so enjoyable!
(uh oh, now I've probably jinxed myself)

The latest task to be completed: Invitations ordered 7 months ahead of time. Due to arrive May 20. I think the key is to build in a cushion. I requested such an early shipping date just in case there is a problem and my invites are delayed. And if they are on time, even better! That gives me 2 whole months to take my time addressing them.

Ahh the cushion, it comes so naturally to me. I use it everyday. You think it will take you 20 minutes to get to your appointment? give yourself 30. Movie starts at 8? Tell yourself 7:45.
Some people may thing I waste too much time this way, but I'll tell you one thing, I am rarely ever late. And i pride myself on this. It's selfish and rude to keep others waiting. It's like saying "my time is more important than yours". And if I do get somewhere with time to spare, fortunately technology has made it so that I can pull out my phone and return some emails, or check out facebook, call my mom for a quick "how's your day?" chat. It's certainly never time wasted.

The cushion: a skill that has served me well and continues to make my life smooth sailing